After Saturday's ride, we went again on Sunday. It was brewing up a storm, but still pretty sunny and clear. We decided to go down into the meadow. We rode through a bunch of cows--some babies, some big horns. All the horses are fine around cows, although Jupiter gives them the eye and wide berth.
We went into the woods east of the meadow and rode down and around and back into the meadow. It was starting to be pretty breezy and the horses were a little high. We went back across the creek and took a trail that led us up to the high road. It always surprises me how easily we connect back into the main road. Lynn knew where we were, however, and was unsurprised.
Then we decided to try to trailblaze and make or find a trail that would take us off the road but back down toward the main meadow. Well, we couldn't get through one way, so being in the back when we turned around I was now in front. Lynn said go to your left--so we did. As we were crashing through the brush, Jupes acted like he knew where to go, so I let him. The only thing was, when I looked over to see where Lynn and Shirley were, they were down about a 100 feet below a grouping of steep rocks and brush to my right. From where I was, I couldn't get to them without backtracking down and around the steep stuff.
Both Jupiter and I could see the road above us, so thinking they were just coming up another way, I let Jupiter have his head and up we went. Once we were on the road, I realized they were not coming up--they were going down and away from us. Although I know it was a bad idea to be separated, I figured she saw us on her left, went right anyway, and then could see us on the road above her and not worry that we were in trouble. When Jupiter realized his buddies were not coming up and he hollared for them. Boy is his voice getting deeper and louder! (:
My good friend Sandi told me I should really try and take Jupes out alone in an attempt to keep him from being herd-bound. I told her about the time I rode alone on Lynn's place and how well we had done together. But other than that, one: I don't have a truck and trailer to go off by myself; two: I can't back up a a trailer anyway; three: unless it's an emergency (God forbid), I have no reason to ride by myself when I have my friends to ride with. I suppose if I lived somewhere where I could just go out and grab him and ride off, I would--I get how cool it is to be with your horse all alone. It just doesn't work that way in my current life and that's okay.
So having said all that, in the back of my mind, I heard Sandi's voice and thought, "Okay, so now we are on our own. Let's see how you handle it." Jupes called for his friends and he felt a little nervous under me, but I kept his feet moving and kept talking to him. He settled down and went down the road. Occasionally, I would stop and listen for them crashing through the brush and I would pay attention to his ears to see if he could hear them, but it was quiet all around us. We came to the little grassy area where I expected them to come out. We went up a little ways and listened for their voices. Still nothing. I let Jupiter eat some of the grass and he forgot all about anything else, I am sure.
Now the thing about being separated is this: you never know if you are ahead or behind the ones you are separated from. For me, that is the worst part. I hate that part. For me, the goal is to eventually be together again. Isn't that the idea of being together in the first place? Anyway, to that end, I pulled up Jupiter and started back down the road--unsure now whether they had shaved travel time off by going in a more straight line and were now in front of us and waiting.
We went on around a few more curves in the road. Suddenly, Jupiter stopped and gave out a belly-shaking bellow. He was answered by two more from up above us. We turned around and trotted quickly back up the road to meet up with our friends. Then he set off on quick trot toward the end of the trail. He was full of himself again. Maybe he was proud of his ability to be separated. Maybe he was anxious to get me off of him. Probably he was ready to go home and eat some grass. At any rate, it was another separate, but fun day ahorseback.